While you might not have opportunities to speak to crowds of hundreds or thousands, your public speaking skills affect your ability to:
This is why it’s so importantto use these practical ways to improve your public speaking, no matter what level of skill (or anxiety) you start from and no matter who you’re talking to, whether it's vendors, peers or clients.
People decide in the first thirty to sixty seconds of a presentation whether to listen or check their email, so you need to practise getting off to a strong start when you speak. Dr. Michelle Mazur says a couple of the best ways to begin a speech include:
While the quickest way to turn off an audience is to:
You want to practise creating and testing different introductions, which help your audience connect with the topic you plan to address.
After you hook your audience, you need to show them a sense of purpose. Sarah Lloyd-Hughes of Ginger Training & Method teaches:
The Golden String Method
Jeff Bezos, CEO of Amazon, is said to walk out of meetings if the presentation is not purposeful and well-organised. Your goal is to keep people in their seats, both mentally and physically, from start to finish so ensure your content is concise and purposeful.
You enjoy particular songs because of the pauses, the tempo or the melody. Musical elements like these are also affect whether or not people enjoy listening to you speak.
Peter Jeff writes about the 8 speechwriting lessons you can learn from songwriters, detailing the musical elements you can apply to your speech:
Jeff gives examples from various speeches to illustrate how you can work musical elements into your delivery. Practise putting the different elements to work in the way you speak. Your audience won’t realise what's happening, but they will enjoy how you deliver your message.
A much-cited study completed at UCLA indicates that 93 percent of all communication is non-verbal. If that's true, then if you don’t understand and manage your gestures, facial expressions and movement, only seven percent of your presentation will get through.
You want to:
However, you want to make sure you don’t:
Practice incorporating non-verbal communication which emphasises your point and makes you interesting to watch.
The fear of public speaking is common, but it shouldn't prevent you from seizing the opportunity to speak in a meeting or present to a group. Countless articles on public speaking cover how to get over the fear of public speaking, but there are two main ideas you should focus on in order to improve.
Till H. Gross, in his TEDx talk on How to become more confident, recounts how he issued himself challenges (like lying in the middle of a busy street) to push the boundaries of his comfort zone.
Issue your own challenges. Different people will have different boundaries to push. You might invite someone new to lunch, take a class or strike up a conversation with a stranger in a coffee shop.
Panic can happen no matter what group you’re in front of or how much planning you’ve done.
It’s important that you:
There’s no magic cure for anxiety, but learning to manage it will ensure you can deliver the speech you actually prepared and it can make you more effective in front of any audience, planned or impromptu.
A big part of learning to improve your public speaking is learning to turn your attention away from yourself and towards your audience, who make up the judge and jury of a successful presentation.
To practise:
Musicians and athletes use video to identify bad habits and poor technique. They continue to monitor their performances to ensure they are improving.
Record yourself when you practise, present or even run through a meeting agenda. Look for ways to improve all of the items we discussed:
Besides video or audio of yourself, you can also watch seasoned speakers like:
Watching videos or listening to audio of yourself as well as others will help you identify both good and bad habits and in turn you can adapt your skills to improve your public speaking.
These are practical steps you can take to improve your public speaking. At some point, we all end up speaking to an audience, whether it be a few people or hundreds. When that time comes, it’s important you are prepared to not just speak, but also to be heard.
(Hat tip to Paul Hudson, Tanakawho, Roger Reuver for the photos)